OK, so... i ended up getting a cobra in dash unit with the front mount speaker. Model C18-WXSTII. I've never been a fan of cobra but it has really good reviews and guys who are running them in the subies are saying the lights match up exact which is a huge plus. There is also not a whole lot to choose from when it comes to din mounted cb's with front facing speakers in general. Seemed like a good find.
Got it here for 60- shipped! the lowest i could find it anywhere else was 75ish on ebay so i thought i'd share my good find with you guys if your looking for one as well.
http://www.provantage.com/cobra-electronics-c18-wxstii~7CBEL043.htmI'll be getting a larsen NMO roof mount antenna for it, gonna try to keep it at 27" that way it won't be too bad. the antenna also unscrews if you want to take it off and a very small cover up cap replaces it to keep everything sealed.
I also had fred order me a din sized clock pod and here are some pics i hijacked of nasioc of what it will look like in the end:

According to cobra it needs the mic plugged in, or an extension to transieve. What I'm going to do is buy another mic or extension (whatever is cheaper) and chop it off about 1" from where it plugs in and put some heat shrink tubing over it. That way if i just want to listen in i won't need the mic cord hanging out. (I really hate cords)